You have all heard of the expressions: friends are forever, boys come and go, or bros before h**s. Yeah, we all heard them and supposedly we go by…

You have all heard of the expressions: friends are forever, boys come and go, or bros before h**s. Yeah, we all heard them and supposedly we go by them. When we have friends we vow never to put your relationship before your friends. Am I right? But how come that rule or understanding isn’t always applied when you are in a relationship? I know a few people who have that problem. These two girls have been friends for years and they did everything together. They told each other everything. Let’s call them Summer and April (two random names). One day both of them got boyfriends. Couple weeks go by, and April was dumped and Summer was left with her boyfriend. April said to Summer how she didn’t like the way Summer’s boyfriend was treating her. Summer got mad and told her boyfriend what was said. The next day both Summer and the boyfriend weren’t talking to April. April thought everything was cool but Summer didn’t want anything to do with April. Why not you might ask? Well, when Summer told her boyfriend what was said, he got really angry and Summer got even angrier. Now Summer doesn’t believe anyone when they say, “He isn’t right for you” or “This feud with April and you is crazy.” She just wants to make her life better and happy with her boyfriend. What do you think April should do about this situation and what do you think Summer should do?   The same goes for boys of course. At least I think it could be the same. Some could ditch their friends to spend all their time with their girlfriends. Then they won’t have their friends when the break-up occurs. Sometimes there are girls who make guys never see his friends again because she hates them. Who knows but it is possible.   – Tatiana

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