All too often, I see people that have differences and would rather let them bring anger and negative conflict rather than handle them maturely. I…

All too often, I see people that have differences and would rather let them bring anger and negative conflict rather than handle them maturely. I wonder what spurns people to do this. I know humans have inherent judment but does that mean that you must be negative to someone else? I don’t think so. Just because you disagree with someone does not mean that you have to degrade or disregard them. This is what I see most often when people argue. The fear that they hold about being wrong or that the other person is doing wrong overrides and forms anger. I think that this is unnecessary because no matter what someone else thinks they are not you. You make your own decisions and don’t have to be part of anothers action. Therefore, if you have so much disagreement with someone that you cant bear it, leave. I just want people to realize that no matter how much you tell someone what is right, it is up to them to make the judgement for themselves to take it into them or not. I see all this pointless negative interaction and I wonder sometimes if people just like to argue. I think it is necessary to form rational opinions but I don’t think we need to argue about things that are so fruitless. So in the end, I think that if you are to argue, try to do so in a respectful way. If you cannot then perhaps consider not doing so.
– Kevin