So just recently I was talking to a friend about one of her relationship problems. She told me that her boyfriend (of about a year) likes to smoke…

So just recently I was talking to a friend about one of her relationship problems. She told me that her boyfriend (of about a year) likes to smoke weed. He loves to do it with his friends. She on the other hand is totally against anyone doing drugs and alcohol. I mean I am too, so I understand where she is coming from. She completely hates her boyfriend smoking weed. At times she would beg him not to do it. He would be like, “Ok, I won’t.” Then a couple weeks later he is off doing it again. Once he even made a promise to her saying that he wouldn’t smoke as often. Maybe like twice or month or so (I don’t remember exactly what was said). Then my friend was telling me that he plans on doing it again soon. They had a mini argument. He was like, “I’m 18 and I do what I want.” Now that upset her quite a bit. She has no clue what to think or do. She was telling me her options: break up with him because of him doing such things (because possibly he will never change) and because she just plain hates the fact that she doesn’t want to be someone who does things like that or just accept him for what he does. He hasn’t gotten hurt or anything…. any suggestions?

– Tatiana